06/08/2016 3:35 AM AEST | Updated 06/08/2016 3:39 AM AEST

11 Things Newlyweds Did On The Wedding Night Besides Sex

The good, the sweet and the very, very ugly.

The wedding night comes with an expectation ― or sexpectation, shall we say? ― of some hot and heavy between-the-sheets action. But in reality, it doesn’t always happen that way. Couples get tired, hijinks ensue and sometimes plans just go very, very wrong. 

Below, 11 people share what went down (or didn’t) after their weddings on Whisper, an app that lets users share their deepest thoughts anonymously.