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Sandra Pertot

Clinical psychologist, sex therapist, writer, wife, mother

Sandra Pertot is a clinical psychologist, sex therapist, writer, wife, mother, nonna...
Why Your Partner Says No To

Why Your Partner Says No To Sex

Differences in sexual wants and needs is one reason to say no. There are, however, other reasons why someone says no to sex.
26/08/2016 9:27 AM AEST
What To Do If Your Sex Life Is Out Of

What To Do If Your Sex Life Is Out Of Sync

Although we acknowledge that there is a wide range of individual differences in human sexuality, we don't seem to talk about them very much. We tend to expect our partner to be like us and to enjoy sex in the same way we do.
05/08/2016 5:51 AM AEST
Why Your Sex Drive Leaves A Lot To Be

Why Your Sex Drive Leaves A Lot To Be Desired

Sex therapists see many women whose complaint is that they have never, or only sometimes, had that feeling of physical desire for sex that they have heard so much about. So what is wrong with them?
18/07/2016 11:20 AM AEST
The Porn Ultimatum: Should Couples Use It Or

The Porn Ultimatum: Should Couples Use It Or Not?

Before we become excited that our society is either going to hell in a handbasket or attaining desired heights of sexual liberation, depending on your point of view, most of the stuff on the net has not been invented by modern, free thinking sexual explorers: it has always been practised.
23/05/2016 1:24 PM AEST
Did Your Grandparents 'Netflix And Chill' More Than You

Did Your Grandparents 'Netflix And Chill' More Than You Do?

The demand for sex therapy continues, but expectation has replaced ignorance as the major source of distress. Now sexual success seems to focus more on behaviours than emotions; tender vanilla sex is derided, prolonged erotic activity has become the gold standard.
09/05/2016 3:25 PM AEST