Meghan Markle gave rare insight into her relationship with her sister-in-law, Kate Middleton, during the CBS prime-time special âOprah With Meghan and Harryâ on Sunday night.
The Duchess of Sussex explained that, despite reports stating otherwise, it was the Duchess of Cambridge who made her cry in the weeks leading up to her wedding to Prince Harry in May 2018.
âThe reverse [of what was reported] happened,â Meghan said. âAnd I donât say that to be disparaging toward anyone, because it was a really hard week of the wedding. And she was upset about something, but she owned it and she apologised and she brought me flowers and a note apologising and she did what I would do if I knew that I hurt someone, right? To just take accountability for it.â
âWhat was shocking was, six or seven months after our wedding, that the reverse of that would be out in the world,â she added.
In November 2018, rumours swirled that Meghan had left Kate in tears over the bride-to-beâs demands regarding flower girl dresses. Meghan told Oprah that it was actually Kate whoâd been upset about âsomething pertaining to the flower girl dressesâ and that the Duchess of Cambridgeâs actions, which she refused to disclose, had made her cry.
âIt really hurt my feelings,â Meghan said. âAnd I thought in the context of everything else going on in those days leading to the wedding that it didnât make sense to not just be doing what everyone else was doing, which was trying to be supportive knowing what was going on with my dad and whatnot.â
Meghan emphasised that it wasnât a âconfrontationâ with Kate and that she has forgiven her sister-in-law. The hardest thing for the Duchess of Sussex was later being blamed by the media for something she didnât do, especially when it had actually happened to her. Meghan said she still doesnât understand why the communications team involved with the wedding didnât back up her claims to the press.
âEveryone in the institution knew it wasnât true,â she said.
When Oprah asked why the palace didnât go on the record to dispel the story, Meghan responded, âThatâs a good question.â
âI would hope that [Kate] wouldâve wanted that corrected,â she continued. âMaybe in the same way that the palace wouldnât let anybody else negate it, they wouldnât let her. Because sheâs a good person.â
In Omid Scobie and Carolyn Durandâs book about the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, called âFinding Freedom,â the authors wrote that Kate and Meghan werenât âat war,â but that they also werenât the âbest of friends,â either.
âAt the outset of her romance with Harry, Meghan had fully expected Kate to reach out and give her the lie of the land on everything an outsider to the Firm needed to know,â Scobie and Durand said.
âBut that was not how things turned out. Meghan was disappointed that she and Kate hadnât bonded over the position they shared, but she wasnât losing sleep over it,â they continued. âAccording to a source, Kate felt they didnât have much in common âother than the fact that they lived at Kensington Palace.ââ
Meghan clarified that she thought the âpolarityâ depicted between the two women in the media was the problem.
âIf you love me, you donât have to hate her. And if you love her, you donât have to hate me,â she said.
Bombshells from Oprah, Harry and Meghanâs interview:
- Meghan says there were racist concerns over Archieâs skin colour â before he was born.
- Prince Harry reveals why royal family turned on Meghan and it has to do with Australia and Diana
- The Duchess of Sussex said she contemplated suicide and was denied help.
- The palace reportedly wouldnât âtell the truthâ to protect the Sussexes.
- Harry says he felt âtrapped within the systemâ of the royal family.
- Meghan says Kate Middleton made her cry, despite reports saying the opposite.
- Harry and Meghan dropped a wedding bombshell at the very beginning of the interview.
- Harry heartbreakingly compared his wifeâs plight to that of his late mother, Princess Diana.
- Meghan and Harry told Oprah the sex of their second child!
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